Monday, April 3, 2017

Summer 2016: walking, talking, and tornado-ing




Shortly after the birthdays, Nora and I headed off to Austin TX for our big conference adventure with Noni. It was a blast (as conferencing with my mama always is). Nora enjoyed Thai food, went to poster sessions, and met her cousin Janet Voight (on the Schultz side), who studies deep-sea mollusks.

Daddy and Toby welcomed us back to Oregon with a trip to another Thai restaurant, where Toby occupied my lap until he was satisfied.

Shortly after this, Toby started reading. He apparently started out with Seuss’s Hop on Pop, but the first sentence I personally heard was “trot with the turkeys” from Sandra Boynton’s Barnyard Dance. I found the spectacle of my baby boy reading independently completely magical. A week later we caught him adding, measuring things with a tape, and recognizing numbers up to 100.
Not to be outdone, Nora started standing on her own. The beginning of summer was also characterized by new fashion explorations with the ever-sassier Nora; sunglasses really help.


And we went blueberry picking! Only once, but Toby has passed the threshold for net gain in blueberry-picking: he now picks more than he eats. We picked as long as Nora slept, and it was plenty. So much that our frozen blueberry stash looks to last almost until Christmas, even though both kids eat some almost every day – one of the few foods we can guarantee will go down. When Nora hears Toby asks for blueberries, she starts frantically signing “please,” and usually that does me in.

Summer brought a lot of outside fun. Both kids love to play in the yard, and the pool got a fair bit of use. June was Nora’s last month with Nanny Elizabeth every day, and we all enjoyed it while we had it. (She comes back to babysit two evenings a month now. Matt and I cherish our date night, Toby goes wild with anticipation, and Nora is happy to see her too.)


Oh yeah, and Nora got her first haircut – the same day I took the above photo, and recognized the urgency!
The summer was full of learning and growing, as Nora got closer to walking. This made it easier for her to try to do EVERYTHING Toby does.

In addition to reading, Toby started writing. This was fascinating; he went through a phase of not just writing single letters backwards, but writing entire phrases. Below reads “Toby to Nanny Elizabeth.”

Our first big family adventure of the summer was a Schultz family vacation to the Oregon coast (missing only Aunt Rachael!). It was FANTASTIC. We played on the beach, we played in the water, we talked and sorted Legos (Toby got the last of the old Schultz collection) and ate. I didn’t cook a thing all week. Heavenly.

We got out to the beach at least once, sometimes twice a day. Toby (re)discovered his love of the surf, and forced Matt or me to go stand in the freezing waves until we couldn’t take it any more. I lasted longer than Matt because I brought rubber boots! Eventually Nora got interested in the water too, and then we had to play a lot of chase-and-grab to keep her out of the waves (strong currents on the Pacific coast!).

Of course there was a lot of fun had in the sand, too. And Nora ate SO MUCH of it. If she thought you were about to take her sand away, she would shove it in her mouth faster than I would have thought possible. I eventually gave up and figured she’d decide on her own that it wasn’t so delightful… you know, if I stopped giving her the impression it was a forbidden treat. (This worked… sort of. At least I stopped wasting my time.)


She also discovered that beaches are a great place to practice one of her favorite expressions, GrumpyBaby, or perhaps Self-Respecting Discerning Baby?

Everyone enjoyed the tidepools. They are one of the glories of the pacific northwest; at low tide, the rocky coast is uncovered. We explored amazing aggregations of anemones and barnacles. Nestled in between we found starfish, crabs, and even a tiny dead octopus. I don’t think it’s possible to get enough of this kind of fun.


Dune climbing was another great activity – Toby pretty much ran straight up the enormous dune by the tidepools, and kept yelling at me to be faster coming up behind him. I was a proud mama when I finally made it to the top.

Matt and I actually snuck off the day before to hang out with friends sans kids and climbed the same dune the back way (easier); this picture gives a better sense of how tall the dune actually is.



We thought Nora would start walking, but she didn’t.

Lots of good family time.






Toby barfed on the way home. Welcome back to life! (Nora shows no signs of getting motion sickness, by the way. Thank goodness.)

We had a few weeks between our two summer trips, and the kids spent it being awesome. Nora started waving. Toby kept reading more, and starting writing words all by himself. Toby got excited about a sewing kit. Nora started her now long-standing (no pun intended) relationship with her very own kitchen drawer, and Toby inspired her to start driving vehicles at a much earlier age than he ever did himself.


The parade of cute clothes hasn’t slowed down, and a new favorite was added after Aunt Becky went to a vintage resale shop. This is 1970’s Carter’s, people, and it is CHIC.

Blog aficionados will recall that after Toby was born, my hair got straighter. After Nora, it got curlier again! So weird that I had to take another picture.

Nora actually took her first steps at the end of July, after standing (very proudly) all alone in the middle of the floor a week earlier. But then we went on our next big trip, so she spent many days focused on absorbing new surroundings and pretending the walking thing never happened.
The next big adventure was flying out to the Midwest for the Royer family reunion, celebrating Grandpa Jim and Grammie’s 25th wedding anniversary. We were very busy getting ready to go; Toby even got to come to school with me for a day, since he still had a bit of a fever. (A bit of a fever at the end of a really long, intense illness… FORESHADOWING!!)

The trip out to Indiana went pretty well, with the kids enjoying themselves at airports on both ends (they share a love of rocks that is quite charming).


 We had a few nice days at Noni’s house, including a fantastic visit with the cousins to the Yellow Spring that the town in Ohio is named for (and a place I spent a lot of time in the fall after Matt and I met in 2013).



But then, just as we were getting ready to go to Richmond for the big amazing party, I started to feel a little under the weather. It turned into a truly horrible illness, with day after day of fever so high I could only lie in bed and moan. Luckily, there were lots of loving family and fun activities to keep everybody else safe, happy, and entertained. It’s just that there are no pictures, and most of the stories are second-hand. 

The kids both enjoyed swimming in the pond with Grandpa and the cousins. They ate tons of yummy food. We got to see our Kerksiek and Roman cousins, and THEIR kids. There was an amazing firework show (a fine Grandpa Jim tradition). I started to feel kinda okay just in time to say goodbye to everyone. We spent our quiet last day in Richmond taking the kids fossil-hunting in the Whitewater River canyon; it turns out I grew up right in the middle of some of the world’s finest Paleozoic fossils. Toby had just been reading about that era, so it was pretty fantastic to go find some rocks to bring home.

Then we trotted off to the airport, all innocence, not realizing that hackers had crashed Delta’s computers nationwide. We spent a VERY long but fairly entertaining (at least for the kids) day in the airport, followed by a night in the airport hotel on Delta’s dime.

The next day we got wise and figured out BEFORE leaving for the airport that our third attempted flight out had also been cancelled. That meant a fun day at my favorite Children’s Museum! There was too much fantastickness to detail, but some of the highlights: Toby excavated a fake dinosaur, Nora and I touched a REAL T. rex fossil (I cannot overemphasize how mind-blowing I found this), and Toby got to play at being an astronaut.




Then it was back to the airport, with only a little more torture when we were moved out of our middle-of-the-night connection plane after we’d settled in, and rushed across the Minneapolis airport in the middle of the night. I couldn’t stomach flying again after that for a long, long time.
That’s probably enough for one post, so to be continued…